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Category: Life Issues : Relationships
Many of us are busy at work without any free time to tell their loved ones how much they care, often times this may lead to whinning and a troubled relationship. However, there are quick, easy and economical ways of telling your significant others that you care even when you are busy working away. I've seperated this into groups of two sections, Mission and How To:
Mission 1: Create the illusion:
A big part of any relationship is the illusion that your significant other is the absolute MOST important thing in this world! You might know this, I might know this, but often times your loved one does not know this... this is why it's a good investment to make sure he/she knows.
How To: At work, it looks very very bad if you are calling your sweetheart on the job... especially when your boss walks by. This is why your relationship as well as career may be much better off if you make sure your loved one have internet access... often, a daily ICQ message or email saying simply "hi hun, I miss you at work today... what are you doing right now? want me to pick up anything from work on my way home?" will do the trick.
Mission 2: Sympathy always works...:
If you have all the free time in the world, and you are only spending 10% of it on your significant other, then there might be some problem. The fact is, many of us do not want to spend 90% of our precious free time on our loved one, because that time is really precious to us too! And other times, its simply not possible.
How To: Admit it, many of us are not exactly the busiest people in the world when we are at work... however, if your signifant other knows that, your Mission 1 maybe fail miserably if all you do is send them a message once in a while. Thus, it is wise to make it seem like your boss is working you to death. Go home with baggy eyes and make it seem like your back is killing you. Then, when you see your loved one, be super sweet and offer to do anything he/she wants to do for the night. This will gain you lots of sympathy and earn you credit for still being such a sweety.
Mission 3: Brown nosing never hurts...
At work, you may rise in the ranks by brown nosing, being a yes-man, yes-woman... it never hurts to tell your bose you love the picture of him and his son or pretend to be interested in his conversation about his family or hobbies and then offer some compliment like "Yeah, I never thought of that before..." or "Oh I see... makes sense..." or "Ha, thats brilliant!"...
How To: As a general rule of thumb, use the same stategy on your loved one, it never hurts. Often times when you are at work when your loved one call you or when you just got home, you are tired and don't care what he/she have to say, but pretend to be interested, and offer cute/sweet comments that you offer your boss... this can only have good positive effects on your busy relationship, helping you rise in the ranks of love.
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